Women seeking massages with 'happy endings'
September 10th 2008 00:06
It's a notorious stereotype of the masseuse: a profession that involves touching the human body, and one that seems a natural extension to the 'happy ending', a sexual climax to finish off the massage.
Naturally, massage therapists fight against this stereotype, from giggling jokes made by their friends to disapproving looks from their uncles. It's hard to separate the professional masseuse from the 'happy ending' specialist
Typically, it's been men that have haunted these places, with the neon 'Massage' signs and the ads in the back of the community paper.
Now, TimesOnline is reporting that there's a growing interest in the happy ending for women:
"I rang a New York friend to ask if she knew of any “Georges” in a town known for its demanding girls. “It’s an urban myth,” she howls. “You always hear about the guy who gives a ‘happy ending’, but when it comes to the crunch, nobody has his number. Ever.”"
Is it an urban legend? I don't think so - at least, there's no shortage of men posting on Craigslist, willing to give you an erotic massage. I wouldn't advise women to get a massage off of Craigslist, though.
The real 'happy ending' paradise is, apparently, a masseur that gives a massage, works you up into a blissful state of relaxation, then brings you to climax without any invasive maneuvers:
" As I posed as a nervous potential client, he explained: “I try to make people relaxed and happy. The ending is sensual and arousing, but it is done without any form of penetration. I do know how to give an amazing orgasm without .”"
It draws a confusing line... Men that pay for stimulation are labelled as 'perverts' or 'desperate' and are seen as contributing to a social problem. Women engaging in the same behaviour.... I have trouble believing that the men willing to do this type of massage are being exploited. Are they?
*this image is from Tranquility Spas
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deserves a little relaxation from a massuer.
It's not cheating if he never takes off his
clothing, just business.
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The only reason because of this is, normally a Woman's massage parlor #strictly for women# is a lot classier and a lot well kept. Which usually falls under the category of a Day Spa, where a woman can get papmered all day and feel rejuvenated. Male AMPs usually is about one thing, so all they need is a bright sleazy neon light to attract it's customers.
Bottom line, If i can get one she can get one. But as long as there are parameters, professionalism and boundaries. Essentially there's no difference if my significant other pulls out a power tool and goes to work on herself without me and vice versa. There are times when i have to rub one out myself, because i don't view my significant other purely as a sexual object. Therefore, i project my normal human lustful desires elsewhere.
In a male sexual psyche, a "quick release" is all a man may need to keep his heart and mind in focus to his significant other. There are times where i would go in, handle my business and leave; the cheapest, cleanest, and most healthy way.
I've found that some places understand why males frequent these AMPs. If you're just up front and tell them exactly what you need, more often than not, they'll help you out. Sometimes, i ask the lady at the front counter if i can just borrow a room for a few minutes. A lot of the times they oblige and never ask questions.
I have also found that there is the concept of fantasy. I'm not quite married yet, and my perception will probably change once it's official. I've visited certain AMPs where they cater to other specific interests such as fantasy. For example, if my libido is in 5th gear that day, and my member is pulsating profusely, i would go to an AMP and arrange to be worked on by three massage therapists. This type of "work" caters to different aspects of the male sexual psyche regarding the fantasy element. For the people who can't read between the lines, i'm solely there to frolic with three professionals at the same time and encourage my fantasy. But most likely there's nothing that a good flick and some oil won't fix.
There are other instances where i would have an AMP session for 1/2 an hour, and i'd tell them I want them to work on a specific area for the whole thirty minutes. I've found that is the best form of relaxation and release. Now that's what i consider being pampered. This particular request are for those who understand the energy of tantra. Fortunately, i like to consider myself as one who is well versed in the tantric arts. I've had sessions where good technique is applied and the energy is so worked up for thirty minutes, that the release is incredible! These massuse ladies know their business well, and some certified massage therapists really use technique for specific parts of a male's anatonmy.
I try and keep the "quick releases" as professional as possible. I coined the term "jack rabbit" "Jack rabbit" is an individual, who particularily goes to an AMP and services himself. I've done that on several occassions. Instead of the massuse finishing me off, she would just stay there to watch and assist me by pouring oil, rubbing my body and legs along with my lower insides, en even my rectum while i would be doing the heavy lifting. It's also very arousing when after the release, a massuse cleans and washes the area thoroughly. I find that sexually exciting as having a fresh pair of hands working on you.
In the end, i think it all depends on the whole sexual desire between a man and a woman. A man just needs instant gratification which is why he frequents an AMP. A woman wants to get pampered and have everything which is why she goes to spas. My point is, if my future wife said she's going to Napa for a day at the spa and she happens to get a happy ending, and she wanted one; No, i would not be affected by it. But then again, i don't want to know about it. But if i were to find out, i would be supportive by trying to understand and i would accept it. It's also different for women and men. My fiance can be up front and tell me she's going to get a massage, whether or not there's a happy ending involved. Whereas, i can't openly tell her i'm going to get a massage without rising suspicion; regardless if there's a happy ending involved or not.
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